Enjoy the Process of Going Unprocessed with Kids, plus Pumpkin Dip
Oct 28, 2018
I was the kid who tried to hide her pear at lunch. I would wrap it in a napkin and eat it behind my crumpled brown bag. I wished with all of my third-grade soul that I could have a shiny pouch of Gushers. I have since thanked my mother for sending authentic fruit. But somewhere on my way to creating a healthy home for my own kids, I forgot about that younger version of myself that wanted to eat what everyone else was eating.
Raising threeย four small children has helped me understand that food isnโt just a pile of calories. Food is comfort. Food creates a culture. And food for kids is a badge of belonging. I allowed my son to eat school lunch two times this semester. His teacher promptly reported that he was thrilled. He isnโt insulting my awesome unprocessed lunches. He just enjoys participating with his peers by holding a speckled plastic tray and selecting a carton of milk.
Although there is a lot at stake, we need to be patient and loving with our kiddos as we haul them into a world of unprocessed foods. So parents, I invite you to take off your serious hat. You know the one you wear when youโre wrinkling your brow while thinking about Monsanto. Make healthy living the happiest, most attractive option for your kids. Create traditions at mealtime. Rename vegetables after different superpowers. We can raise kids who are confident in making healthy choices regardless of what is on the plates of their peers.
Here are a few things that I wish someone told me when I began the messy business of healthy parenthood:
Learn together.
While youโre at the table eating carrots, look up information on your smart phone about the health benefits of carrots. Itโs okay if you donโt know everything already.
Be positive.
Be verbally positive about the healthy foods you serve. I love to narrate how much I love crunchy carrots, juicy peaches, or tangy yogurt. It helps them learn about the distinctiveness of real food ingredients and to enjoy eating.
Create Table Memories.
You canโt control everything that happens with food outside of your home. So make the moments at home memorable by creating a few great traditions. Bust out candles every Friday morning at breakfast. Ask everyone to share something good that happened during the day. Share corny jokes. Whatever. Make the table a place where your kids feel relaxed and happy to belong. This means no nagging to clean their plates.
Mix it up.
Kids enjoy novelty. My solution is to keep real food as a constant and then add novelty by other means. Today I served fruit on a skeleton plate and called the carrot sticks monster claws.
Be polite.
Teach them to politely turn down offers of junk food. I even have my kids practice saying, โNo, Thanks.โ Usually people arenโt intentionally trying to undermine your health efforts. The lollipop lady at the bank wonโt be offended if my 3-year-old says, โNot today,โ with a dimpled smile.
Refrain from Guilt.
Never make a child feel guilty about liking junk food. If guilt is part of the equation, your kids will stop talking to you about what they eat at school or at a friendโs house. If they eat junk, use it as a teaching moment. Ask them how the food made them feel. Ask them if you could try making something similar at home with healthier ingredients. Move forward. No Guilt.
Thanks for working hard to change the food culture for our children. It all adds up. Letโs get to work! Iโd love to hear about your positive parenting ideas as you transition to unprocessed food in the comments below!
Pumpkin Dip
Ingredients
- ยฝ cup nut butter or seed butter
- ยฝ cup plain yogurt
- 2 tablespoons pumpkin purรฉe
- 2 tablespoons honey
- ยฝ teaspoon pure vanilla extract, optional
- ยฝ teaspoon cinnamon, optional
Instructions
- Mix together with a spoon until creamy. If youโd like a whipped texture, use a food processor.
- Serve with any combination of sturdy fruits and veggies. We like jicama sticks, carrots, pea pods, and apples.
Notes
Nutrition
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Very simple and on the mark advice. My son is now a teenager. In third grade he was embarrassed by some of the comments kids made about his unprocessed lunches. By middle school, however, many of his friends were coveting lots of the great looking food in his lunchbox. When I asked him if he wanted bologna on white bread and a bag of chips, he just laughed… The challenge now that he is older is packing enough food. Sometimes it’s a little daunting! And yes, definitely going to try this recipe…
Great narrative along with recipe! I haven’t done anything pumpkin yet, but this might be one of the first. ๐
Daniela,
If you’re not ready for pumpkin yet, try omitting the pumpkin and increase the yogurt by a few tablespoons. It will be delish. I love this recipe because I can toss it together while kids are getting to the table. It’s that fast.
This recipe looks great, especially since I love pumpkin. right now I’m trying to avoid dairy, so do you have any suggestions for an item to substitute for the yogurt, or could I leave it out of the recipe? Thanks!
Shira- anything “wet” ought to work to reach a consistency you like. Try almond milk and only adding a tablespoon at a time until it’s creamy. Good luck!